Earlier this week I attended a luncheon with Ellevate, a diverse women's networking group (there are seriously women from all walks of life - investment bankers, therapists, police officers) committed to helping women be all they are made to be (a.k.a. awesome). The luncheon featured a panel of civic leaders - an assistant fire chief, the diversity coordinator for a local community college, two deputy sheriffs - discussing how we can disagree more civilly in our professional